Thursday, April 25, 2013

Crab Mentality

Persistance of Crab Mentality still exists?! Yes.


From the start of the civilizations to the end of the world (till the II coming of Christ) people's nature will remain the same, except for the so called reformists/born-agains/spiritual enchanters/generalists. (God only knows human real internal instinct and internal motivations)!!

'Success Pro' people are becoming these days. No matter the effort/skill/experience/knowledge required, all want to grab success/fame/name at the earliest. Nature of "Crab Mentality" (If I can't neither should you) starts from here among few. Pateince is all lost. Patience is the say of the old. Today, now, this very moment things should happen. All by hook or crook. Values are been sort by a few. Everyone wants to be ahead of everyone. Everyone wants to reach their destination as quickly as possible. If people happen to fail in doing so may turn back as repulsive, sometimes may turn as violent and few reach till frustration. This happens becuase either we expect more from us OR we are expecting more from others or there are people out there expecting much greater productivity or performance from us. And when they do not turn according to our expectations we become upset. This can even create enemity or opponents in certain situations. Solution, drop the expectations or give some time things might change on its own, then you will be surprised where your anger and frustration vanished to.

I myself, feel sometimes frustrated. Sometimes between anger or sometimes nowhere. All becuase of mine expectations of others. All becuase of others expectations on me. All because of the actions of myself with the expectations of my soul. Always concidence occurs. Always expectations happens. Always somethings fall short. Always somethings great. Few moments when you feel that proud, and few moments you feel that lost. We are humans.

In this race many forget the path that they came from. The lessons taught. The help received. The people who guided them. Race is truely won if played well. Today people are looking to win for the moment, living just for the moment. In this process the are stamping on the lessons, the people who once guided them, just for the sudden fame, people are not bothered on anything else. Few cant stand to see others winning, let it be someone who stood for them, let it be someone with whom they cant compete, let it be someone who is ready to help them again and again.

People of these days.

Colleagues of today.
Friends of today.
Lovers of today.
Families of today.
Partners of today.
Ofcourse, there are exceptions. :)

Truth and Sincerity wins, though not fast or soon.
But later but valued,
But late but respected,
But lately but accepted.
Will remain forever.

I hope it is not that late these people identify where they stand and how they did things. I wish let their eyes be opened and understand their play. Let them start learning things and applying on their own rather than running after others and playing games with them.

This is dedicated to my friend, who was outwitted by her assistant after a whole lot of game plan. 


 

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